- Are you someone who wants to become more self-aware, in a good way?
- Do you want to understand what triggers you have and reduce them over time?
- Someone who wants to become a better friend, partner, parent or leader?
- Ultimately do you want to make peace with who you are, without all the bloody expectations?
If you do, you will become easier to be around, kinder on yourself and better at what you do. Really. Then your invitation to ‘Your Flawsome Life’ awaits.
After 10 years of researching, teaching and speaking to thousands of people I know that the feedback we give ourselves dictates how we connect to others and to ourselves. Understanding what we chose to believe, how we react and our ability to rewire is the key to making peace with who you are and what you’ve got.
A flawsome life is better than making peace with your flaws. It’s knowing that without them – you would not be you. They are a part of you and nothing to be ashamed of. We all have them. It’s part of our humanity. Yet we create this internal tension when we don’t live up to the expectations. The ones others have created for us and the ones we’ve believed. We are so freakin’ hard on ourselves. And it doesn’t serve you or those around you.
When you are not self-aware you cannot see them, nor will you accept responsibility for them. There is no growth in that. If you don’t accept your full self then that creates conflict in yourself and a push back on others because what they tell you is contrary to what you want to be. It’s a cray cray space. And it’s not true.
I want to help you understand that who you are, how you lead and how you roll is ok. When you can do that, you can move forward faster, because resistance no longer exists and peace is your calling card. How cool is that?
So what’s this flawsome program all about?
I’m glad you asked. You will be learning and sharing with other amazing humans who have chosen to be curious and brave enough to grow. There are three principles that we will explore and play with to make peace with our flawsomeness:
Understand your triggers
Have you ever played a character in a play? Or been in a band, or part of a group presentation or played in a team sport? For you to play your role you would have been looking for cues from someone else. Whether the cue was a phrase, a look, a movement, you would have looked for it to indicate it was your turn. Ideally anyway.
Identifying the things that trigger you off in life is the same. But if you don’t know what to look for, you won’t get to learn about the role you play when life, people or circumstances trigger you into a response. The reactions become things that either help us grow, and those around us, or hinder this growth. When we stay in our stress responses we are trapped. We don’t seek what’s true and what’s not.
Seek the truth
The truth is tricky. What’s the truth in conversations or situations? Is it what you think, or another’s perspective? Maybe it’s a combo of both. Maybe it’s neither. Reconciling what you believe about yourself and the impact it has on those around you is where you learn. It might not be comfortable at the start but when you use this as data to help you grow, it becomes freeing.
We need to remain open to whatever is coming our way. When we treat feedback as information, not a personal attack, the learning begins. When we react poorly, and stay in our triggers, we stifle our opportunity to evolve. It’s the curiosity and our search for truth when the magic begins. It’s fear that holds us back from moving into our transformation.
Continue your transformation
This is where your courage lies. The courage to be open to many truths, to know that one person’s perspective of you is just that – their perspective. It’s not automatically adopting others’ beliefs, or punishing them for having them. It’s seeing it as an opportunity to add to what you already know. The aim is to add to your pool of knowledge, not diminish it.
Transformation is endless and it requires discomfort. To know that you are perfectly flawed. That you are awesome because of your flaws. It’s the differences in each other that make us valuable. We just need to learn how to embrace our inner flawsome. To learn that the journey to being whole, is learning to be holey.
If you want to explore the fully flawed and awesome you in a way that feels safe, that is at a pace that you get to control and that will help you walk away with more self love and compassion then come on board.
The program includes:-
- There are 5 x 2 hour online sessions commencing from 29th September and then fortnightly 7-9pm
- A 1 on 1 coaching session with yours truly before the group program begins
- Your program pack which includes your copy of Flawsome, your program notebook and some other goodies
The cost will be $1,195 + gst.
There are only 10 spots up for grabs between now and the end of the year so make sure you don’t miss out! Click here to let us know you are interested asap. I will be honoured to do the flawsome journey with you.